How Can I Talk to My Partner About STI Testing?

There’s often a stigma around sexually transmitted infections (STIs), so if you’re feeling unsure about how to talk to your partner about STI testing, that’s understandable. However, maintaining an open line of communication between you and your sexual partner(s) regarding STIs and testing will help ensure your reproductive health.

Here are some strategies you can take to make talking to your partner about STI testing easier. Looking for free STI testing and treatment? Contact Turlock Pregnancy and Health Center today to schedule a confidential appointment.

Do Your Research First

The more you know about STIs and why you should get tested regularly, the more confident you will feel going into the conversation with your partner.

First and foremost, it’s essential to know that many common STIs don’t cause symptoms. This means it’s possible for you and your partner to have an STI and not know it. However, even when an STI doesn’t present with symptoms, it can still cause reproductive damage and physical harm. This is why getting periodic STI testing and treatment is critical for you and your partner.

While the most common STIs don’t always cause symptoms, when they do, you might experience:

Painful urination, which may feel like burning
Pain in the lower part of the stomach area or lower back
Fever
Vaginal discharge
Vaginal pain during sex
Bleeding between periods
Rectal pain, discharge, or bleeding
Strong vaginal odor that may smell fishy
Painful bowel movements.
Anal itching

*This list isn’t exhaustive; if you and your partner are having any of these symptoms or are generally worried about your reproductive health, it’s crucial to get STI testing as soon as possible or speak to your healthcare provider.

Prepare What You Want to Say

Bringing up STIs to your partner can feel awkward, but preparing what you want to say beforehand can help.

Keeping it simple and straightforward is a good approach. For example, you might say something like, “I’ve done a lot of research about STIs. Did you know it’s possible to have one without any symptoms? This is making me think we should both get tested, just in case.”

Whatever you decide to say, help your partner understand that STI testing and treatment are essential for staying healthy.

We’re Here for You

At Turlock Pregnancy and Health Center, we offer free STI testing and treatment because we believe that you and your partner deserve to have access to what you need to stay healthy.